Growing Old...

DennisMiller

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Mar 25, 2014
Location
Miami, Florida
HCP
Old Age
Local club/country
Killian Greens Golf Club
Irons
JPX-919 Hot Metal, 5-GW
Driver
ST-X
#1
Due to arthritis my hands, I've had to cancel quite a few golf games recently. Voltaire Gell or Tylenol arthritis formula really don't help and up to now, my Rheumatologist has not wanted to prescribe something more powerful.

For whatever reason, coupled with decluttering the house to sell it, as I throw things away or give things away, I find myself often with philosophical thoughts I wouldn't usually feel come naturally to me.

It's made me wonder if anyone else approaching or in old age, (I'm 77), feels the same way.

Physical issues have made me shorten my swing. As slow as it is now, modern tech offers me no more distance or accuracy than a couple yards, so the purchase of new equipment is no longer interesting or worth the cost. As an example, I'm now about 30 yards shorter with every iron. Until the bone spurs in my shoulders returned after surgery, I figured on my 5 iron going about 175 yards, but now, it's about 135-140 at the most. A 180 yard 3 wood is now about 150. If I hit a driver over 200 yards now, it's a good drive.

Allied to that, equipment reviews in the monthly golf magazines are only about new equipment, never anything along the lines of some cult following like I know there is for the Taylormade SIM Max driver, nothing about what used clubs hold their value because they offer something more that has held up over time.

Also allied to the magazines, I've decided to let my subscriptions to Golf Digest and Golf Magazine expire. I also get Golf Journal because I make a donation to the USGA every year, so that's a maybe. The point is, the magazines just don't interest me anymore. The instruction never applies to people my age. The biographies of modern players don't seem to interest me like they used to and the resort articles are lost on me, not willing to spend the kind of money so many weekends at the featured places cost. I've been "financially fortunate", but a $5000 US weekend to play some of the resort courses isn't something I care to spend on golf when I'm just as happy to play locally.

As I watch tournaments on t, I find myself more familiar with the players on the Euro Tour or the LPGA Tour. Some of the up and coming players on the PGA Tour just bore me. I know every generation will change and through my life I definitely remember feeling odd, how I didn't relate immediately to my own age group when players like Lanny Watkins or Tom Watson became popular winners, because they replaced my heroes like Arnold Palmer, or my neighbor down the street Bobby Nichols. As a child I almost resented them.

Now, I find my interest lies in a generation following Tiger, players like Xander, Scotty and a few others I'm interested in like Akshay Bhatia, but my main interest seems to be more in players like Tommy Fleetwood, Rory, Collin or Matt Fitzpatrick, players with personality who don't constantly spit out cliches during interviews.

Going back to the arthritis, it scares me that I might be seeing the ned of my love affair with golf, hich has lasted about 73 years at this point. I wonder if my golfing future is tv and books? That scares me to death...

Is anyone else feeling this way?
 

Robbo016

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Joined
Jul 24, 2009
HCP
0.2
Local club/country
Saunton GC / Cleeve Hill GC
Irons
243 Pro’s 3-PW +0.5" 2 degs up Tour Modus 105 S Scotty SM9Wedges 50, 54 & 60 Scotty putter 3-3-3-5
Driver
Taylormade Qi10 + Fujikura Ventus S-75
#2
I get where you're coming from Dennis - I'm a few years younger but a health scare earlier this year put a lot into perspective. Every game I get now I'm much more chilled and thankful. I love this game, it's been a massive part of my life from about 4 years old and it will always hold a special place in my heart whatever lies ahead. Old Father Time catches everyone eventually I'm afraid - but until then I'm gonna be shouting Fore a lot and having some fun.
 

DennisMiller

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Joined
Mar 25, 2014
Location
Miami, Florida
HCP
Old Age
Local club/country
Killian Greens Golf Club
Irons
JPX-919 Hot Metal, 5-GW
Driver
ST-X
#3
Good Morning Robbo...

At one point, until about a year ago, we considered moving to North Carolina to be closer to our daughter. It was our daughter's idea from when my wife had a heart attack a few years ago.

Looking at houses there, most had at least one room with a high ceiling and now I think you can see where this is going. SIMULATOR!!! I pictured having a simulator inside, my personal air conditioned golf course. The idea of playing 18 holes with snow on the ground outside was quite appealing.

Now, (I tease her that she wants to ruin my life), my wife has decided she wants to stay here in Miami... Places we are looking don't have those high ceilings unless we buy another house instead of a condo... 54 years of marriage and I haven't won an argument yet... :)
 

Robbo016

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Joined
Jul 24, 2009
HCP
0.2
Local club/country
Saunton GC / Cleeve Hill GC
Irons
243 Pro’s 3-PW +0.5" 2 degs up Tour Modus 105 S Scotty SM9Wedges 50, 54 & 60 Scotty putter 3-3-3-5
Driver
Taylormade Qi10 + Fujikura Ventus S-75
#4
Good Morning Robbo...

At one point, until about a year ago, we considered moving to North Carolina to be closer to our daughter. It was our daughter's idea from when my wife had a heart attack a few years ago.

Looking at houses there, most had at least one room with a high ceiling and now I think you can see where this is going. SIMULATOR!!! I pictured having a simulator inside, my personal air conditioned golf course. The idea of playing 18 holes with snow on the ground outside was quite appealing.

Now, (I tease her that she wants to ruin my life), my wife has decided she wants to stay here in Miami... Places we are looking don't have those high ceilings unless we buy another house instead of a condo... 54 years of marriage and I haven't won an argument yet... :)
22 years of marriage and closest I got to winning an argument, in golfing terms, was a good lip out :) - I'd love a simulator room but no space unless the man cave garden room project gets from blueprint into build - unlikely lol
 
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